Me, Myself and Expectations
I must admit that while I sit here and write what will be my very first public blog post there’s a few emotions that I’m experiencing. The most evident is a sense of accomplishment. If you’ve read my biography you can attest to the fact that my life, like many others, has not been a road lined by yellow bricks. It’s been hard, very hard but it’s shaped me into the woman that stands before you (or types before you in this case.)
Six years ago I was told that I would be nothing more than a statistic. A young, black woman, pregnant, who would eventually end up on government assistance with little to no education. Meaning I would never amount to anything, and instead of getting the guidance that I so desperately needed, the expectation was for me to fail. It was at that moment that I decided I would not lie down and become what was expected of me, I was going to fight.
Every trial, tribulation, success and accomplishment has been a stepping stone for me. It is these stones that have ultimately led me to follow my heart and decide that I would not let others define me or limit me, I would pursue my writing career. Hence the reason I have my quote “to fully define me is to put limitations to my ability, and my possibilities are endless.” I follow this through and through.
I’m all about positivity and making the most of your situation. Keep in mind I’m not perfect and yes I have bad days like everyone else, but I try to remember that there are many who are in a worst position than I am. Above all I want my site to be an inspiration to others, not just writers, but to all dreamers. The only time you truly fail is when you decide not to follow your dreams and your heart. That is the key to achieving your dreams.
The bottom line is this. I have risen against the odd’s that were set against me, and I encourage you to do the same. Defy the limitations set against you. While my dream is to be a successful author, your dream might be to become the next president. Regardless of what your dream is follow it. It’s not going to be an easy road, but it will be worth it in the end.
Xoxo
Elle

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